I AM COMFORTABLE

I have been bothered by the way our women dresses nowadays.They say that they keep up with time,but the problem is that they are not comfortable about what they are wearing and they claim they are.

I remember one day, I took a taxi to town, I do not know if it was bad or good luck, a taxi stop other lady, when she jump's in she came straight were I was sitting at the back sit of a taxi. The young lady was wearing a black short skirt of leather, guess what, she was pulling the skirt until we reach our destination, are we allowed to call that comfortable?. According to me that's not it. What I personally think is that, the way they dress they forcefully demand attention. You will hear them say ''I am not dressing for someone else I am dressing for me'', but she knows that guys the way she has dressed guys will react.



What I do not like about them(Girls) they are so quick to judge guy's dress code, for example, some will say I hate Pantsula's dress code because it's untidy or some will say I hate hip-hop dress code because it seems like they do not know their size.

My advice to the sisters would be, a guy wont marry someone who's doing body marketing to guys, so ladies we understand you try to keep up with time,but please cover up a bit.

S A SISTERS AND FOREIGN BROTHERS

SOUTH AFRICAN guys do not have a T.L.C ladies, thats what some of the South African ladies are sayinga bout South african guys , they prefere foreign brothers than the South African brothers. What I like about South Africa you have that right to do things according to your feel.

The thing that I am sure about is that, they can go and fall with our African brothers, but they must not say that we can't treat them good. My question to them is "What is treating good?", because we can traet them in a way that they want to treated, but when they reciprocate on what I am doing for her. The bad thing about them is, because I am a men I have to carry my load and carry hers too, thats highly impossible sisters.

Sisters when we are in this thing called "love" it is not about one party, it is about all parties equaly. What I am trying to bring to the fore, is that I am going to take you out to the expensive resturants or buy you expensive gifts. If I always do that, which means there is no future for the relationship.

THE FUTURE

Today I will be talking about the future.We hear people everyday talking about a better future.The question is, what is future?,each person have his/her own definition of better life.So I personally define future as ''a better life an individual wants to live in future''

I take future as a promised land were each person is dreaming to be,but the bad thing is that you wont be to go through if you have not worked for it,same applies to your future if you don't work for it now forget about better life in the future. Many people are giving on their future with the reason that if you build your future step by step you will end archieving less in life.But me I disagree with that,because when you live a fast life you do things without proper planning and the end have you remain with nothing to show.

If we plan our lives accordingly we will never no matter how strong the odds are we will rise above them.The only thing that makes people fail on their future is because they lack passion and never give up push of what they need to archieve.Problems are tools that are meant to fix to become a strong person in life.

THE SON OF AFRICA IS LATE!

THE ONE OF SOUTH AFRICAN LEGENDS IN REGGAE SINCE FROM THE '80,HE WAS SHOT DEAD BY CRIMINALS WHEN HE WAS TAKING HIS KIDS TO A FRIEND.THE DIED ON THE SEEN.IT SEEMS THE CRIMINALS WHERE TRYING TO ROBE HIS CAR,BUT HIS KIDS (DAUGHTER & A SON) KIDS MANANGED TO JUMP OFF THE CAR UNHARMED.

MR LUCKY IS KNOWN ALL OVER THE WORLD WITH HIS POPULAR SONGS LIKE ,SLAVE,TOGETHER AS ONE,PRISONER AND MANY OTHERS. THE MAN WAS BORN IN ERMELO AND WENT TO LIVE WITH HIS GRANNY IN NEWCASTLE AND HE STUDIED THERE.MR DUBE HIS MUSIC CAREER STARTED IN THE 80's AND HE STARTED SINGING UMBHAQHANGA AND LATER CHANGED TO REGGAE MUSIC.THE GUY WAS KNOWN IN AFRICAN MUSIC BECAUSE OF THE MESSAGE IN MUSIC.

THE COUNTRY ,CONTINENT OF AFRICA AND THE WHOLE ENTIRE WORLD AND LASTLY HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS ARE WHIPPING ABOUT THEIR OF LUCKY DUBE

GOODBYE HERO YOU'VE DONE YOUR PATH ALL OVER AFRICA AND TO THE WORLD AT LARGE.

MISLEADING CELEBS OF SA

Today I want to talk about the misleading celebs of our contry about HIV & AIDS.This celebs are being chosen by the young stars as their life guiders,but they take the full reponsability to do so.

The reason I'm concerned about them is that,last month I read an article about one of MALAIKA GROUP MEMBER that he suffering from HIV-AIDS,but when he was asked if is that true,he said there is no such thing,is just suffering from TB.Then few days after the reports,it was reported that his ex-girl has past on from AIDS. When he was contacted about these;he said the reporters must leave him alone.If we can look back each year we lose a celebrity,but those are same people when they promoting their albums in the media,they will tell us to abstain or condomise,but everyday we read about them demonstrating bad acts to the public.

If my memory serve me well we lost three celebs, first it was Khabzela(Y-fm),the second one was Brenda Fassie(musician) and the last one was Jabu Sithole(weather man & musician).The question is must we take their advices or not because they advice us, also die of Aids.

THE WOMEN IN MEDIA

When we talk about successfull woman in the world of media we are talking about Khanyi Dhlomo.On the 14th of October 2007 I was reading a City Press copy (Business Side),I came across of Khanyi Dhlomo,I was tempted to read it.

Khanyi will be launching her new women magazines,Destiny,the magazine will be in stores as from this week.thats we want from our women in media,not work for someone for the rest of your life.Khanyi is a very strong focus woman who knows what she wants.We want need more women like her.When we talk about indepedant woman,we talking about woman like Khanyi Dhlope who don't just say the word but no evidence for what their saying.What I like about this woman's personality is that she is not afraid to take chancnes,she brings me to my motto that says "life is about taking chances", because I fully believe that when you are afraid to start something sorry you will never make it .

I pray for our women in media to take charge of the media world,the men there need a challenge and the chances are openning up.It is high time for our women to open challenging businesses.They must stop opening hair salons.The qeen of media Khanyi is making her eternal mark in the print media.The interesting thing about her she took her time and gain all the expirience she needed.Khanyi will be leading the editorial and administrative team with her assistant.

TO BE A GOOD RADIO PERSONALITY

Radio is medium that people enjoy to listen when they are relaxing or working where ever they are,so to be a good radio personality you need to follow these steps:



1. YOU must know what your listeners

2. Listen to your listeners

3. Put your listeners first

4. Maintain consistence

5. Do not loose yourself, be original

6. Ability to think solve problems.

Listeners like see that element of originality and even you will be comfortable of what you are doing. If I may make one example with one dj who had a good element originality, that was the late dj Khabzela from Y-fm.That guy had no matric but he mananged to take attract more listeners than any other dj in the country,that supports the point of being original. The other thing about that guy is that, he had no matric certificate but he mananged to excel over the guys who had diplomas degrees because he was speaking the language of his listeners.



Make sure that your show is not predictable to your listeners,come up with something new by so doing your listeners will become more involved with your show, even though if you see that you run out of ideas invite them they will help.Do you know that listeners believe that deejays know everything, so be well informed about what is happening around you